In order for one to write about the sweetness of Love, one
has to truly believe in the power of it. The Power of Love is magnetic and I believe in
it strongly! The Bible explains it this way in 1 Corinthians 13:13, “Three
things will last forever-faith, hope and love-and the greatest of these is
love”. There’s an electricity that one
feels instantaneously the moment that their feelings of love or attraction are
reciprocated by the one that they want in return. That’s the Power of Love. The Bible goes on
to explain that, “Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful,
and endures through every circumstance” 1 Corinthians 13:7. Wouldn’t it be so sweet if marriages in
America were built on this verse? There is something so powerful in the word
endurance. “Permanence” and “duration”
are some of the words that Webster’s Dictionary uses to define endurance. Imagine
if we lived in a world where people would fight for their Love instead of
against one another. I think the Power of Love directly coincides with the
Power of Forgiveness. I pray that my next encounter with love will be my last.
I promise to Love, Honor and Cherish every moment of it. I’m excited for it
even though it hasn’t happened. That’s
the Power of Hope. In the interim, I practice faithfully loving God. Our
relationship has gotten so much deeper than ever before. Waking up daily for prayer, and morning
devotionals have helped me to delve into a much better understanding of how our
Heavenly Creator operates. God is Love
and all he wants from his children is love in return.
My time spent with God has made me realize my dependency on
His love. Similar to being in a
relationship with a man, parent or with one of my children I never want to be
without God’s Love. When a single or a
married person takes the time to firmly root their relationship with God; that
borne fruit can be counterproductive in one’s other relationships. This is where the Grace of God takes us. Isn’t the concept simply magnificent? I think it is. I’ve totally conditioned myself to understand
that without my Creator’s Love in my life I will fail miserably at trying to extend
my Love to a life partner or to anyone else for that matter. Patience and Love completely coincide. I’ve learned through years of impatience how
important it is to actually have patience.
When entering a relationship with a patient ear you can listen even more
intently. One of my biggest weaknesses is my inability to listen effectively;
people that talk a great deal typically suffer with this as well. I
walked away from my last relationship not knowing anything of real significance
about the person that I thought I wanted to marry. Other than reading about his personality in
the results of a popular on-line exam; I didn’t know anything concrete,
significant or really personal about him.
Ultimately, I walked away feeling empty and very embarrassed by
that. With every experience we have the
opportunity to learn something about ourselves and to do better in the future.
The Power of Love will defy any human odds over the outcome.
The Bible says this in Mark 10:9, “Therefore what God has joined together, let
no one separate”. By couples taking the
time out to really listen to one another; they have a strong chance of avoiding
any miscommunication that could later lead to hard feelings. Defining the relationship constantly is also
key. If you have questions for your
significant other just ask them. Within the
first year of marriage or any serious new relationship I would advise the
couple to hibernate. During this hibernation
period the couple should have the opportunity to acclimate to one another’s
needs, wants, ideas and desires for their relationship. The Power of their Love
will have a real chance to flourish because outside influences will be kept at
bay. Having the chance to figure out what they both want without the judgment,
advice or opinions of friends and family members can create a strong foundation
between the couple. By no means, am I
suggesting cutting friends and family off during this time. We all wear different hats with our relatives
and friends than we do in our relationship. If someone you’re considering getting
deeply involved with says to you, “My mother is my best friend”. I would have
to question where do you fit into that relationship. Is there even room for you to be a part of
that friendship? We have a responsibility to actively hear what people say when
they say it, and even more importantly to accept it rather than to think that
we can change it later on down the line.
We can’t just fill-in the missing blanks or make things up as we go
along. We can’t interpret things the way we “think” they should be or make
assumptions on our partners’ behalf. For
example, I couldn’t expect that person to ever make me his best friend if he
was acknowledging that the position was already filled. Now had he said something more hopeful to me
like, “My Mother is my best friend yet I would love for the woman in my life to
eventually fill that space?” I might
have visualized the statement with an idea that implicated a long-term commitment.
As I mentioned earlier, the Love seed needs to be watered constantly in order to
grow.
In conclusion, with long-temperance and a still spirit we
can learn to be way more accepting of everything that God gives us. That
includes the good, the bad, and the ugly. In God’s time, He will introduce you
to the one that he has handpicked, reared and guided directly to you and for
you. That blissful moment will be
impactful and your intuition will awaken you to realize that you don’t want to
spend another living day without that special person. Embrace, give thanks and
cherish every single moment of your Love for the Blessing that it is. Always believing and knowing that its powerful
force will never die when it’s true.
Come rain or shine the two of you will grow closer and closer to one another
with each passing day. Love holds no
records and if you focus on planning your marriage versus your wedding day
things will always remain solid.
Relationships are easy to walk away from but very hard to endure. The person that God has picked for you will
never walk away from you. They will be tested
with temptation as we all are but they will never find it easier to take refuge
in another because you will mean that much to them. Doesn’t that sound sweet? J
I’m praying that the renewal of spring 2013 brings fresh and
fragrant Love to each of your lives; May God Bless You all.
Much Luv,